Lessons from 'The Secret'

'The Secret' is the most powerful film i have ever watched.It is a film about the Law Of Attraction(LOA), how one can be aware of it and use it for their benefit.I have watched it severally and every time i learn something new. I will keep growing this list therefore. But for now:


- Human beings are created in the image of God. This means that they can create their own realities in life.You have the power to attract experiences or things into your life.

- In life what you expect is what you get.

- Be grateful. Being grateful always brings more to be grateful for.

- You are what you think.You attract what you think of most.

- Don't criticize or blame anyone, ever.

- Do not try to change someone Be and let others be.

- You are a magnificent being. You can be or do or have anything you want in this world.

- If you want to attract something in your life fill your mind with positive thoughts regarding it(Visualize yourself having it already and feel the happiness....).In a matter of time it will be yours.This thought process will cause you to act towards attaining that thing. Think good health,lots of money, adorable kids, a nice car..

Have you watched/read 'The Secret' yet?

Get Esther n Timberlake off my TV screen!

It is true that one Esther Adongo and her entourage walked themselves into Nation center without invitation seeking a kind of press conference. Why does she feel obliged to prove a point? And what point is she desperate to prove anyway? That she is now a married to a man who looks and sounds so foolish it hurts?! "She's mine,she's mine.." he says winking and pointing at Esther like she's some trophy. Talk about giving gold to the pigs.

Watching her and her husband cuddling for all the world to see how 'in love' they are, was like a watching a horror movie in slow motion. Since when did 30 year olds pull teen-age like stunts.How heart breaking must it be for her parents? What embarrassment it must cause them to see her like that.

It got me thinking, parents should never give up praying for their children.

As for Esther, that Timberlake husband of hers should give her a baby ASAP. From her actions(wiping his WHOLE face with a hanky and adjusting his shirt)she needs a baby to 'mother'. Maybe that will occupy her enough so she doesn't have to appear on my TV screen any time soon.

The young bride..

She is the the young bride, got married at 21.

She believes marriages are made in heaven

She's committed to make her marriage work

She chooses not to believe things like

‘All men are liars’ or ‘women always gain weight after marriage’

Her husband still sees the girl they he married when he looks at her,

Because she dodged the after-baby love handles that her elder sisters got after having babies when they were past the age of 25.

They tell her that love will end after sometime

That she will fall out of love

But she doesn’t believe them! She won’t hear any of that

She believes that looking good is essential

She wants to look good for her self confidence and so that her husband

Can look at her the way Barrack looks at Michelle

Even when she's 50!

After all when she's 90 she will still be married to this same man

Because she believes

Marriages work, and Love never ends.